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	<itunes:summary>A marriage and relationship resource for couples seeking marriage counseling and growth.</itunes:summary>
	<itunes:author>Stay Happily Married</itunes:author>
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	<itunes:subtitle>How to stay happily married - The latest marriage tips and advice from the nation&#039;s leading authors, counselors, and mental health professionals. Topics include, sex, intimacy, marriage counseling, conflict, kids, and family.</itunes:subtitle>
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		<title>In-Law Interference</title>
		<link>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2012/01/09/in-law-interference/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2012 14:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Is constant interference from your in-laws killing your marriage? We’ve all seen a football game where everything went from fantastic to devastating in mere minutes. It looks like a clear win; your team is ahead, defeating all obstacles in their path. Then BOOM, out of nowhere interference by the other team turns the game around [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Is constant interference from your in-laws killing your marriage? We’ve all seen a football game where everything went from fantastic to devastating in mere minutes. It looks like a clear win; your team is ahead, defeating all obstacles in their path. Then BOOM, out of nowhere interference by the other team turns the game around entirely. What was once an easy game turns messy and complicated very quickly. A good relationship can overcome a lot of obstacles that the world throws at it, but constant interference from an outside source can create larger rifts that are hard to overcome.</p>
<p>Dr. Nicole Imbraguglio is Clinical Director at <a href="http://www.lepageassociates.com">Lepage Associates</a> in Durham, NC where she provides counseling and evaluation services to individuals of all ages. She is experienced in individual, couples, and group therapy and specializes in couples issues. She holds her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology with a minor in Interpersonal Dynamics, as well as a Master’s degree in Community and Clinical Psychology. To find out more about Dr. Nicole Imbraguglio you can visit the <a href="http://www.lepageassociates.com">Lepage Associates website</a> or call 919-572-0000 for an appointment.</p>
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			<itunes:subtitle>Is constant interference from your in-laws killing your marriage? We’ve all seen a football game where everything went from fantastic to devastating in mere minutes. It looks like a clear win; your team is ahead, defeating all obstacles in their path.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Is constant interference from your in-laws killing your marriage? We’ve all seen a football game where everything went from fantastic to devastating in mere minutes. It looks like a clear win; your team is ahead, defeating all obstacles in their path. Then BOOM, out of nowhere interference by the other team turns the game around entirely. What was once an easy game turns messy and complicated very quickly. A good relationship can overcome a lot of obstacles that the world throws at it, but constant interference from an outside source can create larger rifts that are hard to overcome.

Dr. Nicole Imbraguglio is Clinical Director at Lepage Associates in Durham, NC where she provides counseling and evaluation services to individuals of all ages. She is experienced in individual, couples, and group therapy and specializes in couples issues. She holds her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology with a minor in Interpersonal Dynamics, as well as a Master’s degree in Community and Clinical Psychology. To find out more about Dr. Nicole Imbraguglio you can visit the Lepage Associates website or call 919-572-0000 for an appointment.

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		<itunes:author>Stay Happily Married</itunes:author>
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		<title>Is Financial Stress Killing Your Marriage?</title>
		<link>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2011/12/05/is-financial-stress-killing-your-marriage/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Dec 2011 14:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>stephanie</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The current economic deficit has placed a significant strain on our wallets, our jobs, but most importantly, our relationships. Divorce rates are an unsettling 51% today, which means half of all marriages are ending in divorce. What is even more disturbing is that out of the couples getting divorced, approximately 80% of them attribute their [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>The current economic deficit has placed a significant strain on our wallets, our jobs, but most importantly, our relationships. Divorce rates are an unsettling 51% today, which means half of all marriages are ending in divorce. What is even more disturbing is that out of the couples getting divorced, approximately 80% of them attribute their failed marriage to disputes over finances. While these statistics may seem daunting, there is hope. There are ways to reduce the burden that financial difficulty has on marriage, and by enacting some of these techniques, your marriage will have a better chance for success.</p>
<p>Dr. Tina Lepage, founder of <a href="http://www.lepageassociates.com/">Lepage Associates</a> in Durham, NC, specializes in couples and marriage therapy and helps to rebuild marriages on a daily basis. She has a master’s and doctorate in Clinical Psychology and an additional master’s in Management, degrees which prove exceptionally helpful for this topic. Financial stress effecting a relationship is more common than most would be believe. To help those dealing with this situation Lepage Associates have prepared an article, <em><a href="http://www.lepageassociates.com/pdf/Managebudgetmarriage.pdf">Managing Your Budget and Your Marriage: The Key to a Healthy Relationship</a>.</em></p>
<p>To find out more about Dr. Tina Lepage you can visit the <a href="http://www.lepageassociates.com/">Lepage Associates website </a>or call 919-572-0000 for an appointment.</p>
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		<itunes:summary>The current economic deficit has placed a significant strain on our wallets, our jobs, but most importantly, our relationships. Divorce rates are an unsettling 51% today, which means half of all marriages are ending in divorce. What is even more disturbing is that out of the couples getting divorced, approximately 80% of them attribute their failed marriage to disputes over finances. While these statistics may seem daunting, there is hope. There are ways to reduce the burden that financial difficulty has on marriage, and by enacting some of these techniques, your marriage will have a better chance for success.

Dr. Tina Lepage, founder of Lepage Associates in Durham, NC, specializes in couples and marriage therapy and helps to rebuild marriages on a daily basis. She has a master’s and doctorate in Clinical Psychology and an additional master’s in Management, degrees which prove exceptionally helpful for this topic. Financial stress effecting a relationship is more common than most would be believe. To help those dealing with this situation Lepage Associates have prepared an article, Managing Your Budget and Your Marriage: The Key to a Healthy Relationship.

To find out more about Dr. Tina Lepage you can visit the Lepage Associates website or call 919-572-0000 for an appointment.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Stay Happily Married</itunes:author>
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		<title>Anxiety is Ruining My Relationship</title>
		<link>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2011/11/14/anxiety-is-ruining-my-relationship/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2011 14:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>stephanie</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Anxiety is reaching epidemic proportions with nearly 50% of Americans meeting the criteria for an anxiety disorder at some point in their life. We worry about money, our health, safety, car accidents, whether or not people like us, traveling, work, and more. All this worry takes a huge toll-wasting an enormous amount of time and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Anxiety is reaching epidemic proportions with nearly 50% of Americans meeting the criteria for an anxiety disorder at some point in their life. We worry about money, our health, safety, car accidents, whether or not people like us, traveling, work, and more. All this worry takes a huge toll-wasting an enormous amount of time and energy that would be better spent elsewhere. An often overlooked area of concern is the impact of anxiety on our close relationships. Dr. Christine Korol is a cognitive-behavioral therapist who specializes in the treatment of anxiety disorders and sees the consequences of untreated anxiety on the relationships of many of her patients.</p>
<p>Dr. Christine Korol is a psychologist specializing in anxiety and stress in adults and children and is currently practicing in Calgary, Alberta. She has worked for many years, in both private practice and in hospital settings, and is a former lecturer at the University of British Columbia. Christine is also a cartoonist and author of the blog <a href="http://www.wiredtoworry.com/">Wired to Worry</a> and is currently working on an illustrated guide on anxiety management. To find out more about Dr. Korol you can visit her site, <a href="http://therapyworks.ca">Therapy Works</a>.</p>
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			<itunes:subtitle>Anxiety is reaching epidemic proportions with nearly 50% of Americans meeting the criteria for an anxiety disorder at some point in their life. We worry about money, our health, safety, car accidents, whether or not people like us, traveling, work,</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Anxiety is reaching epidemic proportions with nearly 50% of Americans meeting the criteria for an anxiety disorder at some point in their life. We worry about money, our health, safety, car accidents, whether or not people like us, traveling, work, and more. All this worry takes a huge toll-wasting an enormous amount of time and energy that would be better spent elsewhere. An often overlooked area of concern is the impact of anxiety on our close relationships. Dr. Christine Korol is a cognitive-behavioral therapist who specializes in the treatment of anxiety disorders and sees the consequences of untreated anxiety on the relationships of many of her patients.

Dr. Christine Korol is a psychologist specializing in anxiety and stress in adults and children and is currently practicing in Calgary, Alberta. She has worked for many years, in both private practice and in hospital settings, and is a former lecturer at the University of British Columbia. Christine is also a cartoonist and author of the blog Wired to Worry and is currently working on an illustrated guide on anxiety management. To find out more about Dr. Korol you can visit her site, Therapy Works.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Stay Happily Married</itunes:author>
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		<title>How to Tell Your Spouse You Have Had an Affair</title>
		<link>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2011/11/07/how-to-tell-your-spouse-you-have-had-an-affair/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2011 14:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>stephanie</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[They say that once trust is lost that it can never be regained. The ultimate betrayal of trust in a relationship is, without a doubt, an affair. People often don’t realize the consequences of their actions until after the act has been committed. Undoubtedly, the hardest part of an affair is when you come to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>They say that once trust is lost that it can never be regained. The ultimate betrayal of trust in a relationship is, without a doubt, an affair. People often don’t realize the consequences of their actions until after the act has been committed. Undoubtedly, the hardest part of an affair is when you come to the point where you need to tell your spouse exactly what has happened. Like anything else, there is a right and a wrong way to break this heavy news to your spouse.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.lepageassociates.com/html/janet.html">Dr. Janet Savia</a> joins us to discuss the effects that an affair can have on your relationship and how to break the news to your spouse. Janet practices in Durham, NC with <a href="http://www.lepageassociates.com">Lepage Associates</a>, where she helps couples repair marriages damaged by trust issues on a daily basis. She has a master’s and doctorate in Clinical Psychology. Dr. Savia works with helping people with general stress and life transitions, and personal growth pursuits. To find out more about Dr. Janet Savia you can visit the <a href="http://www.lepageassociates.com">Lepage Associates</a> website or call 919-570-000 for an appointment.</p>
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			<itunes:subtitle>They say that once trust is lost that it can never be regained. The ultimate betrayal of trust in a relationship is, without a doubt, an affair. People often don’t realize the consequences of their actions until after the act has been committed.</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>They say that once trust is lost that it can never be regained. The ultimate betrayal of trust in a relationship is, without a doubt, an affair. People often don’t realize the consequences of their actions until after the act has been committed. Undoubtedly, the hardest part of an affair is when you come to the point where you need to tell your spouse exactly what has happened. Like anything else, there is a right and a wrong way to break this heavy news to your spouse.

Dr. Janet Savia joins us to discuss the effects that an affair can have on your relationship and how to break the news to your spouse. Janet practices in Durham, NC with Lepage Associates, where she helps couples repair marriages damaged by trust issues on a daily basis. She has a master’s and doctorate in Clinical Psychology. Dr. Savia works with helping people with general stress and life transitions, and personal growth pursuits. To find out more about Dr. Janet Savia you can visit the Lepage Associates website or call 919-570-000 for an appointment.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Stay Happily Married</itunes:author>
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		<title>On The Brink Of Divorce</title>
		<link>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2009/12/14/on-the-brink-of-divorce/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 19:38:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Is a separation looming on the horizon of your relationship? Ideally, a couple can recognize their problems and get help before divorce is considered an option, but all too often, couples will allow conflict and communication issues to fester until marriage counseling is seen as a last ditch effort on the way to divorce court. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Is a separation looming on the horizon of your relationship? Ideally, a couple can recognize their problems and get help before divorce is considered an option, but all too often, couples will allow conflict and communication issues to fester until marriage counseling is seen as a last ditch effort on the way to divorce court. Liza Shaw returns to the show to take a look at what puts a couple so close to the edge and what can be done to put the marriage back on the right track.</p>
<p>Liza recommends using resources like <a href="http://marriagefriendlytherapists.com/">MarriageFriendlyTherapists.com</a> and the <a href="http://www.aamft.org/">American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy</a> to find a qualified professional to help you and your spouse.</p>
<p>Liza is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Advanced Clinical Hypnotherapist with a private practice in Hickory, NC, where she specializes in couples counseling, family counseling, and grief therapy. You can find out more about Liza and her practice at <a href="http://www.powertothrive.com">PowerToThrive.com</a> &#8211; or visit <a href="http://www.powertothriveradio.com">PowerToThriveRadio.com</a> for interviews and podcasts. You can also call her office at 828.328.4673</p>
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			<itunes:subtitle>Is a separation looming on the horizon of your relationship? Ideally, a couple can recognize their problems and get help before divorce is considered an option, but all too often, couples will allow conflict and communication issues to fester until mar...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Is a separation looming on the horizon of your relationship? Ideally, a couple can recognize their problems and get help before divorce is considered an option, but all too often, couples will allow conflict and communication issues to fester until marriage counseling is seen as a last ditch effort on the way to divorce court. Liza Shaw returns to the show to take a look at what puts a couple so close to the edge and what can be done to put the marriage back on the right track.

Liza recommends using resources like MarriageFriendlyTherapists.com and the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy to find a qualified professional to help you and your spouse.

Liza is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Advanced Clinical Hypnotherapist with a private practice in Hickory, NC, where she specializes in couples counseling, family counseling, and grief therapy. You can find out more about Liza and her practice at PowerToThrive.com - or visit PowerToThriveRadio.com for interviews and podcasts. You can also call her office at 828.328.4673</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Stay Happily Married</itunes:author>
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		<title>Unfaithful: Hope And Healing After Infidelity</title>
		<link>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2009/11/23/unfaithful-hope-and-healing-after-infidelity/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 16:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When first dealing with infidelity, the pain and shame can make recovery seem unlikely. Too many people see an affair as a death-sentence for a marriage, but Gary and Mona Shriver are proof that recovery and forgiveness are possible and worth the effort and have created a ministry dedicated to couples whose marriages have been [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>When first dealing with infidelity, the pain and shame can make recovery seem unlikely. Too many people see an affair as a death-sentence for a marriage, but Gary and Mona Shriver are proof that recovery and forgiveness are possible and worth the effort and have created a ministry dedicated to couples whose marriages have been shaken by infidelity.</p>
<p>You can find out a lot more about Gary and Mona Shriver and &#8220;Unfaithful, Hope &amp; Healing after Infidelity&#8221;, along with information about Hope and Healing ministries at <a href="http://hopeandhealing.us">HopeAndHealing.us</a>, which features a wealth of free audio and video resources for couples dealing with infidelity. You can also order a copy of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1434765334?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=stayhappmarr-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1434765334">Unfaithful: Hope and Healing After Infidelity</a><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=stayhappmarr-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1434765334" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> at Amazon.com</p>
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			<itunes:subtitle>When first dealing with infidelity, the pain and shame can make recovery seem unlikely. Too many people see an affair as a death-sentence for a marriage, but Gary and Mona Shriver are proof that recovery and forgiveness are possible and worth the effor...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>When first dealing with infidelity, the pain and shame can make recovery seem unlikely. Too many people see an affair as a death-sentence for a marriage, but Gary and Mona Shriver are proof that recovery and forgiveness are possible and worth the effort and have created a ministry dedicated to couples whose marriages have been shaken by infidelity.

You can find out a lot more about Gary and Mona Shriver and &quot;Unfaithful, Hope &amp; Healing after Infidelity&quot;, along with information about Hope and Healing ministries at HopeAndHealing.us, which features a wealth of free audio and video resources for couples dealing with infidelity. You can also order a copy of Unfaithful: Hope and Healing After Infidelity at Amazon.com</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Stay Happily Married</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>29:09</itunes:duration>
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		<title>The Fight That Never Ends</title>
		<link>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2009/09/28/the-fight-that-never-ends/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 16:33:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When an argument is brewing, do you know exactly how it will play out before the first angry word is said? Are you constantly having the same argument over and over without ever resolving the root issue? Stephen Hawthorne joins us to examine why we avoid tackling the problems that cause us to have the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>When an argument is brewing, do you know exactly how it will play out before the first angry word is said? Are you constantly having the same argument over and over without ever resolving the root issue? Stephen Hawthorne joins us to examine why we avoid tackling the problems that cause us to have the same argument repeatedly and how to open up to your spouse and resolve these conflicts once and for all.</p>
<p>Stephen has been on the faculty of Duke Medical Center since 1977 and has operated his own private practice in Durham since 1981, where he specializes in psychotherapy services for adults, and children, ranging from chronic illness and depression, to sexual dysfunction and ADHD. You can find out more about Stephen by visiting his website at <a href="http://stephenhawthornelcsw.com">StephenHawthorneLCSW.com</a> and by visiting his blog about his unique ABCTherapy at <a href="http://abctherapy.wordpress.com/">ABCTherapy.Wordpress.com</a></p>
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			<itunes:subtitle>When an argument is brewing, do you know exactly how it will play out before the first angry word is said? Are you constantly having the same argument over and over without ever resolving the root issue? Stephen Hawthorne joins us to examine why we avo...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>When an argument is brewing, do you know exactly how it will play out before the first angry word is said? Are you constantly having the same argument over and over without ever resolving the root issue? Stephen Hawthorne joins us to examine why we avoid tackling the problems that cause us to have the same argument repeatedly and how to open up to your spouse and resolve these conflicts once and for all.

Stephen has been on the faculty of Duke Medical Center since 1977 and has operated his own private practice in Durham since 1981, where he specializes in psychotherapy services for adults, and children, ranging from chronic illness and depression, to sexual dysfunction and ADHD. You can find out more about Stephen by visiting his website at StephenHawthorneLCSW.com and by visiting his blog about his unique ABCTherapy at ABCTherapy.Wordpress.com</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Stay Happily Married</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>27:08</itunes:duration>
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		<title>Spotting An Emotionally Destructive Marriage</title>
		<link>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2009/08/17/spotting-an-emotionally-destructive-marriage/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Aug 2009 15:42:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The signs of physical abuse are often easy to recognize, but do you know the indicators of emotional abuse in a relationship? Where do we draw the line between a benign sarcastic exchange every now and then and behavior that is truly hurtful to one or both spouses? Dr. Michael Hall joins us to examine [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>The signs of physical abuse are often easy to recognize, but do you know the indicators of emotional abuse in a relationship? Where do we draw the line between a benign sarcastic exchange every now and then and behavior that is truly hurtful to one or both spouses? Dr. Michael Hall joins us to examine exactly what emotional abuse is, the impact it has on both spouses, and steps you can take to remedy this behavior in your marriage.</p>
<p>Michael owns a private practice in Charlotte, NC where he not only works with individuals and couples for relationship and marriage counseling, he is a well known figure in the corporate and career counseling world as well. You can give Michael a call at 704.858.2984 to find out more.</p>
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			<itunes:subtitle>The signs of physical abuse are often easy to recognize, but do you know the indicators of emotional abuse in a relationship? Where do we draw the line between a benign sarcastic exchange every now and then and behavior that is truly hurtful to one or ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>The signs of physical abuse are often easy to recognize, but do you know the indicators of emotional abuse in a relationship? Where do we draw the line between a benign sarcastic exchange every now and then and behavior that is truly hurtful to one or both spouses? Dr. Michael Hall joins us to examine exactly what emotional abuse is, the impact it has on both spouses, and steps you can take to remedy this behavior in your marriage.

Michael owns a private practice in Charlotte, NC where he not only works with individuals and couples for relationship and marriage counseling, he is a well known figure in the corporate and career counseling world as well. You can give Michael a call at 704.858.2984 to find out more.</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Stay Happily Married</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>34:05</itunes:duration>
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		<title>Do You Treat Your Spouse Like A Child?</title>
		<link>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2009/08/10/do-you-treat-your-spouse-like-a-child/</link>
		<comments>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2009/08/10/do-you-treat-your-spouse-like-a-child/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 14:46:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Where is the line between a normal concern for your spouse&#8217;s well-being, and micr0-managing his or her every decision? Are problems with respect and control solely the fault of the &#8220;parent&#8221; in the relationship, or do both spouses play a part in creating this kind of dynamic? Dr. Katrina Kuzyszyn-Jones joins us to look at [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Where is the line between a normal concern for your spouse&#8217;s well-being, and micr0-managing his or her every decision? Are problems with respect and control solely the fault of the &#8220;parent&#8221; in the relationship, or do both spouses play a part in creating this kind of dynamic? Dr. Katrina Kuzyszyn-Jones joins us to look at the control issues and maturity issues that can lead to this problem and discuss what both spouses can do today to start fixing this unhealthy pattern.</p>
<p>Katrina holds a Masters degree in Forensic Psychology, a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology, and has been practicing for over 10 years. Katrina practices with Lepage Associates in Durham, NC and can be reached at 919.572.0000, or by visiting <a href="http://lepageassociates.com">LepageAssociates.com</a></p>
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			<itunes:subtitle>Where is the line between a normal concern for your spouse&#039;s well-being, and micr0-managing his or her every decision? Are problems with respect and control solely the fault of the &quot;parent&quot; in the relationship,</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Where is the line between a normal concern for your spouse&#039;s well-being, and micr0-managing his or her every decision? Are problems with respect and control solely the fault of the &quot;parent&quot; in the relationship, or do both spouses play a part in creating this kind of dynamic? Dr. Katrina Kuzyszyn-Jones joins us to look at the control issues and maturity issues that can lead to this problem and discuss what both spouses can do today to start fixing this unhealthy pattern.

Katrina holds a Masters degree in Forensic Psychology, a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology, and has been practicing for over 10 years. Katrina practices with Lepage Associates in Durham, NC and can be reached at 919.572.0000, or by visiting LepageAssociates.com</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Stay Happily Married</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>23:57</itunes:duration>
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		<title>Is Your Spouse Always Wrong?</title>
		<link>http://stayhappilymarried.com/2009/07/13/is-your-spouse-always-wrong/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 15:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why is it so easy to blame the problems in your marriage solely on your spouse, but so difficult to examine your own contributions to problems in the relationship? Is it possible to improve the situation with your spouse by changing your own behaviors? Counselor and broadcast personality Carolyn Craft joins us to discuss how [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Why is it so easy to blame the problems in your marriage solely on your spouse, but so difficult  to examine your own contributions to problems in the relationship? Is it possible to improve the situation with your spouse by changing your own behaviors? Counselor and broadcast personality Carolyn Craft joins us to discuss how to improve our marriages by focusing on our own contributions to problems we blame on our spouses.</p>
<p>In addition to her private practice in Durham, NC where she specializes in communication, sexual issues, addiction, and grief/loss, Carolyn is an ordained minister and hosted a popular show on Sirius Satellite radio for 10 years. You can find out more about Carolyn&#8217;s broadcasting career at <a href="http://www.carolyncraft.com">CarolynCraft.com</a> and more about her counseling practice at <a href="http://www.unity.vpweb.com">www.unity.vpweb.com</a></p>
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			<itunes:subtitle>Why is it so easy to blame the problems in your marriage solely on your spouse, but so difficult  to examine your own contributions to problems in the relationship? Is it possible to improve the situation with your spouse by changing your own behaviors?</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Why is it so easy to blame the problems in your marriage solely on your spouse, but so difficult  to examine your own contributions to problems in the relationship? Is it possible to improve the situation with your spouse by changing your own behaviors? Counselor and broadcast personality Carolyn Craft joins us to discuss how to improve our marriages by focusing on our own contributions to problems we blame on our spouses.

In addition to her private practice in Durham, NC where she specializes in communication, sexual issues, addiction, and grief/loss, Carolyn is an ordained minister and hosted a popular show on Sirius Satellite radio for 10 years. You can find out more about Carolyn&#039;s broadcasting career at CarolynCraft.com and more about her counseling practice at www.unity.vpweb.com</itunes:summary>
		<itunes:author>Stay Happily Married</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:duration>26:22</itunes:duration>
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