{"id":2046,"date":"2012-08-20T09:30:28","date_gmt":"2012-08-20T13:30:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/stayhappilymarried.com\/?p=2046"},"modified":"2012-08-20T09:30:28","modified_gmt":"2012-08-20T13:30:28","slug":"erotic-or-abusive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.stayhappilymarried.com\/article\/2012\/08\/20\/erotic-or-abusive\/","title":{"rendered":"Fifty Shades of Grey: Is it Erotic or Abusive?"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Is your love life an erotic novel or abusive nightmare?<\/h3>\n<p>The <em>50 Shades of Grey<\/em> trilogy has steadily remained at the top of the New York Times bestseller list for several months. The risqu\u00e9 nature of the book that once started out as Twilight fan-fiction is catching the attention of men and women across the globe. Aptly nicknamed \u201cMommy Porn\u201d, the over the top erotic and abusive nature of the trilogy evokes visions of a modern version of <em>The Story of O <a href=\"https:\/\/newzpharmacy.com\/\">https:\/\/newzpharmacy.com\/<\/a>.<\/em> Questions about the nature of the intense relationship between the two main characters and the book\u2019s strong appeal to women are being discussed widely.<\/p>\n<p>In marriage, how do you determine whether the dynamic between you and your spouse is healthy or abusive when behaviors encourage dominant and submissive relationships?<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Colette Segalla\" href=\"http:\/\/www.lepageassociates.com\/colette.html\" target=\"_blank\">Colette Segalla<\/a> is a doctoral candidate in clinical psychology from Pacifica Graduate Institute. Colette is a psychotherapist with <a title=\"Lepage Associates\" href=\"http:\/\/www.lepageassociates.com\" target=\"_blank\">Lepage Associates<\/a> in Durham, NC where she works with individuals and couples on issues ranging from anxiety and depression to problems in sexual intimacy. She enjoys working with couples to improve communication, connection, and emotional and physical intimacy.<\/p>\n<p>To find out more about Colette Segalla and her practice, <a title=\"Lepage Associates\" href=\"http:\/\/www.lepageassociates.com\" target=\"_blank\">Lepage Associates<\/a> in Durham, NC, you can visit them <a title=\"Lepage Associates\" href=\"http:\/\/www.lepageassociates.com\" target=\"_blank\">online<\/a> or call 919-572-0000 for an appointment.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Is your love life an erotic novel or abusive nightmare? The 50 Shades of Grey trilogy has steadily remained at the top of the New York Times bestseller list for several months. The risqu\u00e9 nature of the book that once started out as Twilight fan-fiction is catching the attention of men and women across the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,5,11,16,20,21,23,24,25,47,48,55,65,66],"tags":[82,171,176,194,440,441,442,482],"class_list":["post-2046","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-abuse","category-advice","category-appreciation","category-books","category-coaching","category-communication","category-compatibility","category-conflict","category-control","category-intimacy","category-marriage","category-podcasts","category-self-image","category-sex","tag-abuse-2","tag-dominant","tag-e-l-james","tag-fifty-shades-of-grey","tag-submission","tag-submission-abuse","tag-submissive","tag-verbal-abuse"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stayhappilymarried.com\/article\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2046","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stayhappilymarried.com\/article\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stayhappilymarried.com\/article\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stayhappilymarried.com\/article\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stayhappilymarried.com\/article\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2046"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.stayhappilymarried.com\/article\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2046\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stayhappilymarried.com\/article\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2046"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stayhappilymarried.com\/article\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2046"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stayhappilymarried.com\/article\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2046"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}