{"id":563,"date":"2010-03-15T15:11:18","date_gmt":"2010-03-15T20:11:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/stayhappilymarried.com\/?p=563"},"modified":"2010-03-15T15:11:18","modified_gmt":"2010-03-15T20:11:18","slug":"stop-the-fighting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.stayhappilymarried.com\/article\/2010\/03\/15\/stop-the-fighting\/","title":{"rendered":"Stop The Fighting"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Has communicating with your spouse become a lost cause? Does he or she seem not to have any understanding of where you&#8217;re coming from, or just flat out refuse to engage &#8211; leading to fighting and resentment?<\/p>\n<p>Paul Shaffer joins us to discuss the top 5 factors that create communication stalemates in marriages and other ideas he explores in his book, <em>Conflict Resolution for Couples<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Paul has been a professional counselor for almost 25 years and currently owns his own practice, Right Choices Counseling, in Huntersville, NC. You can find out more about Paul and his practice at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.rightchoicescounseling.com\/\">RightChoicescounseling.com<\/a>, or by calling 704.578.2725. You can also purchase Paul&#8217;s books, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1418483087?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=stayhappilyma-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1418483087\">Conflict Resolution for Couples<\/a>, and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1425966314?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=stayhappilyma-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1425966314\">Conflict Resolution for Christian Couples<\/a> from Amazon.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Has communicating with your spouse become a lost cause? Does he or she seem not to have any understanding of where you&#8217;re coming from, or just flat out refuse to engage &#8211; leading to fighting and resentment? Paul Shaffer joins us to discuss the top 5 factors that create communication stalemates in marriages and other [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[16,24,26],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-563","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-books","category-conflict","category-counseling"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stayhappilymarried.com\/article\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/563","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stayhappilymarried.com\/article\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stayhappilymarried.com\/article\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stayhappilymarried.com\/article\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stayhappilymarried.com\/article\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=563"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.stayhappilymarried.com\/article\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/563\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stayhappilymarried.com\/article\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=563"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stayhappilymarried.com\/article\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=563"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stayhappilymarried.com\/article\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=563"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}